Pearls of Wisdom Home
Home  |   Empowering Women  |  Empowering Tools For Self Growth for Women (and Men)
share by email

Empowering Tools For Self Growth for Women (and Men)

Regardless of our present or past circumstances, the important thing is .... everything that is happening or has happened is for a reason. In reality, there are no victims. We each have a different sad story to tell, there are thousands of them. But the common thread that runs thru them all, which is what this whole section is devoted to, is that we have at some point lost our power, or it has been taken away from us, or we have just plain given it away.

The aim of Empowering Women is to help you find ways of re-discovering that powerful being that resides within. There are already many courageous sites devoted to telling their personal stories. Empowering Women has a different focus - which is on what you can do to empower yourself - now, regardless of your present or past circumstances. At any time you choose, you can take the bold step and awaken the Empowered Woman (or man) that already exists within you. Empowering Women aims to point you to some of the tools to do that, and also provide the inspiration to do it.

I have included here the work of the following three women, Carolyn Myss, Melanie Tonia Evans, and Byron Katie, who provide positive and practical tools we can work with, that teach us how to empower ourselves, to bring back balance, harmony and health into our lives. I highly recommend you take the time to visit these sites, and absorb what they have to teach. They will help transform your life. On your journey to self-empowerment, these sites have much to offer.





Melanie Tonia Evans

Melanie Tonia Evans, The PainfulLoveHealerT is an author, radio host, qualified kinesiologist and quanta healer, spiritual healer, life empowerment coach, and relationship and dating expert. Following her own painful relationships and personal experiences that bought her to near death, her research, healing and empowerment of herself and others has seen Melanie become an advocate for empowering women and facilitating the creation of healthy relationships. Today Melanie is a recognised world expert on narcissism, co-dependence and relationship addiction. Her "Empowered Love Radio" program, interviews, books, courses, articles, readings and healings assist women world-wide.

:: Visit Melanie Tonia Evans website ::

Melanie Tonia Evans Course ::

Narcisstic Abuse Recovery Program by Melanie Tonia Evans
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Program
by Melanie Tonia Evans

A unique breakthrough self-healing system allowing you to
make a full recovery, without recurring long-term ongoing
support or the label of being an 'abuse survivor' anymore.

Available formats:
Digital pdfs, mp3 audios




Melanie Tonia Evans Book ::

Breaking The Chains Of Painful Love
by Melanie Tonia Evans

This timely book is about co-dependency, narcissism and relationship addiction.  Are you tired of:

Melanie's self-help books Breaking the Chains of Painful Love and Take Back Your Power will teach you how to heal from narcissistic abuse and dysfunctional love relationships and create happy, healthy relationships with yourself and others. They were created as a result of Melanie's recovery from narcissistic abuse, co-dependency and relationship addiction. Additionally, these books offer empowerment information due to her unique and profound awareness and discoveries as a self-mastery coach and energy healer. The mission of these books is to heal painful love and narcissistic abuse by granting the real core-level reasons as to 'why' we create these relationships, 'why' we get enmeshed in deadly relationship addiction cycles, and 'how to' re-create ourselves in order to release the need to ever experience painful love again.

Available formats:
Digital pdf download

:: Melanie's Wisdom ::

 Every time we rely on someone or something outside of us to provide us with love, success
or happiness, we hand our power over. As soon as they don’t provide it we are defeated.
Ironically, when we decide to be love, success and happiness, we easily attract the people,
events and objects that supplement this state.

 Ninety percent of our life is created for Emotional Belief Systems, not logic reasoning.
This explains why past trauma, pain and fear creates powerful ‘less than’ belief systems
that have wedged like crossbows.

 Needing is a state of the ego – that tries to convince us that we are empty and
we need something to feel love, success and happiness. Our true self requires nothing
to feel complete. From a state of being complete we create more to complete us.

You have always been deciding the truth of your life. It is how you decide to feel about it.
There is no need to try to work out what something means. You decide what it means.


 ..... .....      ..... .....      ..... .....    


The Work of Byron Katie

The Work of Byron Katie is a new form of self-inquiry that can radically change the way you understand problems. You will learn how to meet your thoughts and therefore your entire life with understanding, forgiveness, and love. It will teach you how find relief on all levels, mentaal, emotional and physical. The aim is to always re-direct the problems you see "out there" with others, back to yourself. In what way are your self-beliefs creating your reality? It is about taking back responsibility for your life, out of the hands of others and back to yourself.

:: Visit Byron Katie website ::

:: Do The Work ::
The Work basically consists of four questions to ask yourself
You can print the page of questions out, or you have the
option of doing it on-line and printing out your answers.
Click here to go to the worksheets.

Byron Katie Books ::


 ..... .....      ..... .....      ..... .....    


Caroline Myss

Carolyn Myss is a medical intuitive, author, with degrees in theology, journalism, and has a Ph.D. in Intuition and Energy Medicine. Caroline's work is about assisting you on your path to becoming a more conscious, powerful, energized and healthy person. Her site contains a wonderful, interactive Flash presentation of the chakra system and their roles. She also explores the archetypes within us all that provide the foundation for our personality, drives, feelings, beliefs, motivations, and actions.

:: Visit Caroline Myss website

:: Caroline Myss Books

:: Caroline's Wisdom ::
Read Quotes by Caroline Myss Quotes


 ..... .....      ..... .....      ..... .....    




  • Jackie Woods - Your Guide To Empowerment
    Helping people discover and heal their old patterns of relating to others that no longer support them in living healthy lives. Services and classes that will help people create and maintain healthy ways of interacting with their world.

  • Daring To Dream: Reflections on the Year I Found Myself
    by Karen Ely
    Daring To Dream: Reflections on the Year I Found Myself - by Karen ElyAn intimate chronicle of loss and renewal, of love and grief, of focus and confusion, but most of all it is a story of growth and personal transformation.

    Daring to Dream takes the reader through a year in the author’s life -- a year of rebirth following the end of a 32-year marriage -- into those private moments of anguish and reflection where we discover that we have the strength, wisdom and power to grow from life’s most challenging experiences.

    Karen Ely’s journey toward an authentic life and a stronger sense of herself is both heartbreaking and exhilarating. Throughout the book, her honesty reaches out invitingly, encouraging all women to turn their attention inward and listen to the beatings of their own hearts.